Originally Posted By: Lillieperl

Dom's unrelenting "yes-but" optimism shows that he doesn't really grasp your sitch. He doesn't know how much you've done and for how long. He can't fathom that some people just don't respond to kindness, understanding, talking, willingness to cooperate.


Lillie, that paragraph says that you dont understand what I've been writing to Karen. (or just havent read all of it \:\) )

I've been saying for a long time in her threads now, "'asking him nicely', just hasnt worked. It's time to take a stand, and throw plates around".

When I say that Karen hasnt "confronted him", I dont mean, "she hasnt 'discussed it with her H'". I mean, she hasnt Confronted him. As in, "Look buddy this isnt acceptible any more what are you going to DO TO FIX IT?!!"
(which I have also written in her threads multiple times)

Anyways, enough of that here. Karen should start a new (unlocked) thread, if she wants people to talk about her situation further \:\)



Last edited by Dom R; 01/24/08 06:31 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle