But other pressure can be brought to bear externally, and YOU get to be in charge of it! The pressure of a parent, sibling, or other person she respects, going to her and imploring her to end her affair and return to her family.
Choc,
Can you expound on this a bit? My W has a sister and close friend she is confiding in. I know they are on my "side" because they have told me so, and I believe them. What should I say to them to help them know what to say to my W to apply that pressure?
