I'm changing my vote about telling him, too. If you're getting inpatient help (yay for you!!!), it's a "big deal" enough for him to know about right there ... but then factor in that someone else is going to be taking point on childcare for awhile .... as their father he deserves to know that, IMHO. This is the kind of thing that will cause WAY more problems and distrust if you try to hide it. Again, JMHO.

Others have good advice on how to word the conversation.

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You got guts, girl.


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