Hi Cat, you posted while I was posting so I didn't see this.
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[quote=cat03]He was nervous as hell tonigth he says, yet every second or third thing he said alluded to ML with me... ================== he's hurt and in a hurry to make it go away in any way he can.
Yup...I think you might be right. He wants it to be all good.
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When did he said he'd break it off w/her? Until then, keep detaching, he is not ready to make a good decision yet.
He didn't specifically say that he would do it and didn't say when he would do it. What he DID say was that he couldn't do it straight away because she wasn't even in town. (and tonight she sent him a text to say she had returned..so now she is back, but given what's happened tonight I cannot see that he will be hopeful of us getting back together)
I've been trying to call him. I think his phone is on silent so I don't know if he's not answering on purpose or if he just doesn't realise I'm calling or if he's hurting himself.
I left two messages. One to say that I hoped he was okay (I think...crap this is bad that I can't remember) and the second one to say that I wanted to apologise for over-reacting about the B thing. I do believe him about that....I just wish she would bugger off and leave him alone. btw B is the former g/f I referred to in above post.