He was nervous as hell tonigth he says, yet every second or third thing he said alluded to ML with me... ================== he's hurt and in a hurry to make it go away in any way he can.
When did he said he'd break it off w/her? Until then, keep detaching, he is not ready to make a good decision yet.
He needs to fix himself. I don't think I am the person for him. I don't feel like I can be myself when I'm with him. I'm horribly suspicious and paranoid and I can't seem to shake it. ========================= I have been an enabler for so long, and have ended up just that, suspicious and paranoid about his every move, that is just NOT right. He prob is afraid to come clean w/the gf (just like my H right now). You have a good head on your shoulders, he does need to fix himself on his own, make it up to you by leaving all traces of ow behind and work on your issues before you open up your heart/bed to him again.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
