well, all hell broke loose, it is over and done

[cat03]

just great, I wanted to get this over with, but lo and behold H has to go stay in court all morning due to his job, he is there right now and will barely make to his shift as it is.
ARGHHHHHHH! I wanted so badly to talk about this sitch grrrrrrrrrrr. We reschedule for tomorrow at 3.

Well, more time for me to STOP worrying, worrying is not trusting that God has this in control.

Just found out (not from H) that ow was planning details and being the head leader to the supposed D that was supposed to be final this March (H admited it was a stupid thing to tell her, there wouldn't be a final D come March). She wanted H to take the house from me, take the kids (portray me as an unfit, neglectful, abusive mother), to file charges against me (protective order for her, she said I was wielding a knife when I went to her condo that day) That she'd take care of the kids and would finance the the D "no matter the cost". That I was emotionally disturbed and a threat, that she was "on task" and personally involved in this matter to make sure the D would happen.

Doesn't look like a sad confused person to me, more like the harpy from hell.

I knew from H that he'd told her some unflattering things about me, but not all this crap! no wonder he feared for his life at the thought of ow telling me all the stuff he told her to appease her, prob because of the blackmail or perhaps some of those stories about me were said back in 05.
I was fuming when I found out, but now I realized it was a product of H's panicked-asscovering-lying-fried mind. He knows very well that all that crap would never in a million years hold in court, he just led ow on an on...

OK, deep breath .... God has this sitch in His hands, I know He does.