I was reading your thread and see that you are going to retrouvaille! Thats wonderful!! My H and I did it in September, and I would have to say it was the best thing that we could ever have done! It has made such a huge difference in how we communicate. We are able to really talk and listen to each other, and not get upset or angry, which is huge for us. We accept what we are each feeling, it has shocked me from time to time how we do talk now, and how h will accept things I say and really accept them, not see them as digs or me picking on him, so this is huge for us! We continue with going to the core meetings now and really enjoy them...we are in fact giving a talk next wednesday, it wount be anything to heavy for us, as its still to soon. But this is huge for us! So best of luck with it!!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
