When I am ready to "deliver the message", it will be a face to face thing. As Mojo says, the important thing is delivering the substance of what I'm posting here. I won't share this forum with her because, based on past episodes of sharing, I think she would totally miss the messages, and start cherry picking posts from me that, in her view, contain lies, misstatements, omissions, mischaracterizations, etc. She would also likely cherry pick those posts which may support her viewpoint, as further validation for her position. The time I shared Michele's book with her comes to mind. She disappeared up into the bedroom with it for about 30 minutes, came downstairs and proceeded to quote from the book about how I was supposed to be doing this or that, ignoring her part in any of it, and that was the last time she touched the book.
I can deliver the message without sharing this forum, which is one of the few places in my life that I choose not to share with my wife, my kids, my friends, or my co-workers.
