He sounds so confused and like Saffie has stated above I think he's putting feelers out to see if you agree with him (on the fact things are irreparable -sp?) He seems to swing from one end to the other.
There is pain in reconcilation and working on things but there is also a lot of pain in divorce!!!! For the kids I think the pain would be worse - I fought as hard as I did b/c I wanted to prevent my kids from feeling any pain. They got some of it when we separated and were talking D but they already are forgetting the apt they so hated going to.
My H swears that Retro did so much more than MC - and you NEVER have to talk in front of the group or share anything personal - just the two of you do this in your room --alone. We did not end the weekend all in love again but it did get us back on track!!
You are doing awesome - keep at it!!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
