Mink - I'd hold off on the house warming gifts. Just play it cool, you are doing great.
I need to get to where you are now. I have done a HORRIBLE job of GAL. Just cannot get out of this funk. After 7+ years of marriage, my divorce has been a huge blow to my self-esteem. I guess I became a bit co-dependent. Every day I wake up sad, wishing that my family was back together. My W and I did everything together - tennis, dinners, vacations, etc. I have had such a hard time detaching.
