*I know the things I would have to change (he listed them, and touched EVERYTHING on my list, and I have never told him my 'list') and I would be willing to do this. It would have to be done to make us work again.
*(next sentence) But I don't think it'll work.
*You won't be able to move past the hurt.
lwb - He may have been 'stating' these things but perhaps he was hoping you would hop in at some time and refute them - not the list of things that would need to be changed, (that personally I would acknowledge and let him know how impressed you are that he was able to identify them all), but I think maybe he needs a lot of reassurance that IT COULD work and that you WOULD be able to move past the hurt eventually.
As you know piecing is hard for most people, but surely he must be able to see that from all that you have put up with so far, you would jump at the chance to be able to at least TRY to put it all back together. Personally I think the work one does in pieceing is work you need to practice forever to keep one's M in a good healthy state.
And I sure am waving, ( and jumping up and down and whooping), about you accepting the invitation. You guys need to bank some good times together
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
