Thing is she is calm, and seems to make sense to me when she's saying it.
I convinced my sister, mother, aunt, grandma, children, father, friends and Pastor's wife that I was doing the right thing when I decided I not only wanted but NEEDED a divorce.
Imagine their surprise when they heard the "POP!" of my head coming outta my butt later down the road...
Come to think of it, I just realized it was only my Pastor that never said a word.
Interesting.
Well, then I would have believed you too!
Although, I don't think my W is in MLC like you were Amy. I think she's just burned out with the way things have been. That doesn't mean she isn't responsible for some of it, and I think to some extent she takes some responsibility for some of her contribution. But only to the point where she can 'see' that she hung on and was 'mean' to me when she should have left instead.
But, that still doesn't give her a 'pass' to just decide to leave because we're 'growing in different directions', yet she has no exit plan.
Regardless, that's her problem. My problem is to find my own ways of being happy.
