And that's why counselling is required to have an impartial third party listen and reflect back what people are saying. Unfortunately the odds are pretty high that the WAS will still not listen, but at least the LBS is still trying and looking under every rock for solutions.
It's so much easier to give advice than it is to receive isn't it? Plus, I must confess I ahven't gone back through SirPrizeMe's whole story, just the last few pages so undoubtedly I'm missing a lot of background. just wanted to put forth a differing opinion.