About sleeping in the other bed, perhaps he thought you wouldn't like it if he slept on what is now "your" bed, don't read too much into it.
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If he'd thought rationally ...
Honey, you two are different people, don't assume he "should've" know what was bothering you. It was a simple question, he sensed you didnt' seem happy when he was prob thinking you would be glad to have gone away without the little ones.
I think I'm going to call a few single female friends I have and have a V friendly dinner,perhaps, don't hold much hope for a romantic date for V for the time being.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.