Thing is she is calm, and seems to make sense to me when she's saying it.
I convinced my sister, mother, aunt, grandma, children, father, friends and Pastor's wife that I was doing the right thing when I decided I not only wanted but NEEDED a divorce.
Imagine their surprise when they heard the "POP!" of my head coming outta my butt later down the road...
Come to think of it, I just realized it was only my Pastor that never said a word.