keeps focussing on 'but I just want to be with you' without committing to some things that I need from him ============================================== scaryly similar to my H who confesed he made many desicions just so he wouldn't be alone...eventually the novelty of being home faded and he was back to his miserable self, I endured this for months. Listen to the above and do not let him in until you both reach to an agreement. Yes, he should break up w/her ASAP, sadly, it usually doesn't happen fast enough, they drag their feet afraid to hurt the ow, so watch out. About ML, please be careful about STDs, you dont' know where the gf has been.
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He has to earn a second chance. It shouldn't be a free pass.
I gave my H 2 free passes and he took me for granted and stepped all over his promises, I made it too easy for him to stay/come back and H learned nothing.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
