I would let her steer the ship where communication is involved. I almost never call my W but she calls me almost every day. Sometimes many times in a day. When this forst happened it also help to have a rule of not contacting her to avoid putting pressure on her.
However, when she does contact you, always be nice. Whenever you are not nice, argue with her or really even disagree with her, it just reinforeces in her mind that she was right to leave. IMO You are best to be a contradiction to her impression of you whenever possible.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
