Thanks WAS...I'm having a hard time expressing to him what I expect. I always end up feeling that I'm the one being unreasonable when I feel that h is just riding on emotion and whatever feels right to him at the time. He doesn't appear to think things through and have a plan in place of how to fix things, other than to do the things that he wants to do which is spend time with us and ML. Unfortunately I need a whole lot more than that in order to reconnect properly. I guess that's what happened the other day. I ML with him but didn't really connect with him.