Minkerman, take heart cuz backsliding is to DB like sin is to the Bible, it's just gonna happen! Don't fret about it, you handled it fine. I know it's tough, especially in the beginning, I'm in my third month of separation and I'm finally beginning to feel like myself again. I'm no longer part of a couple, I'm me now. By detaching and making ourselves into better, more interesting people we actually stand a better chance of winning back our S's. By fretting, pleading and whining we actually work against what we want. So, by GAL'ing and taking care of yourself emotionally you are adopting a no lose strategy. Hang in there!
