So I've read through most of your posts and boy have you been through a lot. What a turn around this has been for you, congrats!
The biggest difference I see is that my W isn't hostile towards me. We actually get along better than we did before, she just can't live with me and can't sort out her feelings toward me.
It's really driving me nuts. One day she says she doesn't think there's much hope for the future and she feels like she is leading me on by spending time with me. The next night she texts me while I'm out and wants me to come over afterwards and visit. She was having issues dealing with her fathers death in November and needed some support. Ended up staying the night. It's a pendulum with her, don't know how she's going to feel one day from the next. I theorize that when her dad died she emotionally shut down and hasn't been able to deal with anything since. She still hasn't dealt with that and probably wont be able to sort out her relationship issues until she does. It's hard to give her the space she says she wants when she's often the one contacting me.
Wish they'd just make it easy and tell us what they want.
