He had asked that we do something last night (I couldn't cos I had water polo) and also spend time together this afternoon/evening. I wanted to go salsa dancing but I have a sore leg at the moment so I suggested that he come around and help put training wheels onto d's bike. He was happy to do that until he 'realised' that he felt that I used him for sex. I left him a message saying I would call last night after I got d to bed. I didn't even get d into bed until after 9pm (tis holidays here) adn I was still reading to her when he sent me a text saying "so much for ringing me, I'm going to bed". I texted back saying I was still putting d to bed and then rang him but it went to his message bank. I have rung him again this morning to re-invite him to come around this afternoon but I had to leave a message. Urgh...he's going to play the "i'm so hurt" card.
His g/f is away at the moment so he said he couldn't break up with her straight away. Not happy 'bout that, however on reflection, it's probably not fair to expect him to ring her out of the blue and call it quits...or is it?
He said he think she's coming back on Saturday. How long should I give him to break up with her? I would like to insist that it happens ASAP...is that fair? I can always say that d and I will spend time with him doing things but I won't be going to his place at all and he won't be staying overnight here and definitely no ML until I have proof that he has broken up with her. I can wait him out. I just have trouble dealing with his hurt feelings and moody behaviour when he sees me as 'playing games' with him. What is reasonable for me to insist?
