Not sure I agree with you there. I am not trying to destroy reputations or get into any one else's messed up relationship. It may be tempting to expose, but I am gaining nothing from doing that except exacting revenge. I am trying to save this marriage, so if I make the whole world know of the infidelity, I would only be hurting myself right now. I don't want my kids to hear from other kids what their mommy did. I think that would be pretty awful. If they don't have to know, I don't want to tell them.
