Maybe she doesn't have the 'courage to leave' and has to 'let me go', meaning she has to create within herself 'the courage to leave'.
But, does she have the 'courage' or 'desire' within her to stay if/when she sees her role in this? Or is it simply not there, because she is 'done'
Maybe.
Maybe one of my boys grows up, decides he is gay, brings his boyfriend home to meet me and my wife over Thanksgiving break...Tehn maybe they tell us that they got married in Switzerland...Maybe my wife will take that better than me.
Everything for you is hypothetical.
You are wasting your thoughts and time on what-ifs. Your "What-If's" are riding shot gun on everything you do, while the part of you that should be focusing on the sh it you say you need to focus on is tied up and in the trunk of the burning car.
Your questions posed about the mental make-up of your wife...NO ONE here can answer. NOT you either, cause you jump to conclusions the way Frogger jumps across a virtual road. Your wife isn't going to give you an answer, or better yet if she does, your going to anaylyse it to death, revive it and anyalyse it to death again.
You want control, stop worrying about her. Stop wondering if her breathing just changed because you entered the room. And if you cannot stop wondering, we don't have the answers as to why.
June is fast approaching.
Stop telling me you get it, or you're right.
Once you stop obessing about your wife here, I'll believe it.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
