WCW, I have looked at pix from a few years ago and I look pretty much the same. Carrying my weight a bit better perhaps. I get the "I can't believe you are 36" quite often, maybe it is from being bald however.
SD, I have changed my diet from how I used to eat, but still lack a healthy diet in some respect. The "tiredness" thing has been going on for as long as I can remember, pre this sitch and marriage. It is now just catching up to me with more regularity. I have fallen asleep driving and standing up while teaching, mostly just a quick nod off, but nontheless it is scary. I bring this up to friends, w included and they tell me that I quit breathing during the night. So it looks like more of a sleep disorder, as opposed to health. I am in better shape now than 10 years ago. W explained to me that she is scared to lose me, loves me, I am her rock, etc. and can't understand how things got to this point, but still has her own demons. None of it is finacial related, because she makes considerably more than I.
