Well, now I have to write something! I hoped Lisa would take care of it!
OK, it isn't pressuring, so that's good. And I see you are trying to set a boundary. But I wonder if you might not be being direct enough? I think you need to have a sentence that says exactly what you want, or don't want. He's a guy, and that's not in there in the current form, so he isn't going to see it.
