Jenny I wouldn't let your son go yet. He is too little to me. Bfeeding or not. I checked with a L about mine and he said they don't recommend they be away like that until they are well over a year. I know you want your H to see how hard it is, but is it the best thing for your son?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!