So, what should I do if I see the OM? The guy lives in my neighborhood for God sake. I know I will take the high road and say nothing, but it sure would feel good to give a glare or something.

I have to ability to monitor my W. What I mean is that I can see her phone records (cell, home), and her email still. For a week, I have been all over those things seeing what she is up to. But since I know she is still in the affair, so should I just stop looking? Everytime I read that garbage they are saying to each other I want to throw up. I have a desire to know, but I am not sure if it is helping or hurting me.

I am committed to trying to GAL. Only I can make me happy. No more depending on her. If she is an idiot and throws this away, I can't control her. I am just sorry b/c the people who will suffer the most will be our kids.


I have been reading lots of the posts. I thought I was alone in this, but it REALLY helps to know I am not the only one. Thanks to you all for being here. I will be on this site a bunch.


I am sure I will have more questions on how to behave. \:\) So many questions, so many emotions. This sucks!