Jenny, if you aren't feeling comfortable with such SHORT notice, just tell him that you haven't had time to pump and could you make it another night? I don't think that is unreasonable. Do you two have a set schedule, yet? If not, then do what you are comfortable with. And, I understand the electronic conversations and the hatred of them. I too, hate them. I think it's absolutely ridiculous. I am really trying to muster up enough strength to tell him that if he needs to discuss something, then he needs to call. If it's something simple that requires a brief answer, fine he can text me. But, visitation, finances anything of importance, no way. It's too easy to misinterpret their text messages.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him