Hound's oddessy #2

[houndfan]

It has been almost a month since my last update....

For those of you looking for some hope here ya go:

We are still together and things seem so much better now than in years. Sure there are still issues that we are working, but we are finally working together on some change in our lives.


There are still some tense moments especially as we are addressing the OM issue as well as some of the trust issues etc. But again the MC has been awesome!

So since October 13 we have gone from "you make my skin crawl." "you are a loser" etc to lots of loving affirmation of our marriage.

We have decided that we are going to renew our vows at some point soon and that I will get a new ring etc for her. I think that really we are starting a new marriage because she will only say now that she is in a relationship not married. Oh well

I am sure that many of you want to know, "Hound, are you still DB'ing?"

The simple answer is YES. And I suspect that I will be forever. I have realized that DB'ing is more about being a great husband, a great friend, and a great partner and that is a lot of DB'ing. Not the LRT stuff etc, but the other things that Michelle speaks of in her message.

So yep, still doing it every day.

I hope that you all reading this will find your way through your sitch. I feel guilty that I have found myself in this position while many of you still feel the pain that I once held in my heart. I hope that you too will see some progress as you move forward.

I hope that my plight gives you hope, believe me when I tell you that if I can make it this far you all can too. I am not sure if there is anything that I didn't do to my wife.

Good luck!