LT, Your decision seems pretty straightforward to me. You two are separated. He's still involved with someone. He wants to come home. NO
I don't think wanting to come home should be enough for the WAS to come home. Piecing is going to be very difficult if there is an OP involved. You will be bringing turbulence into your life.
You have leverage and power to set limits with the R. Use it wisely. Don't squander it.
You can maintain a friendship if you like. A connection with him may encourage him to reconsider his R with the OP, and make a commitment to you at some point.
He has to earn a second chance. It shouldn't be a free pass.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
