Hi BobbiJo. Sorry I wasn't around the other night when your H was being a ars. Sounds like you have rebounded ok and are handling things well. I agree with you telling him your reasons for not wanting to go to Omaha. My H has mentioned getting a job elsewhere but has made no mention of us going. Makes me want to say WTF.

My H is really good at avoiding talking. When I tell him we need to talk about something he will say we can do it ....and name a time a few days away. Then he doesn't want to talk then. My H has complained that we didn't communicate in the past, but he makes no effort now. So try to find some inner peace before you talk to your H tonight. Remember to remain calm and state your reasons, questions, etc. like you did here.

Hope your S is feeling better.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
previous threads
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1270987&page=5&fpart=1