O.K., I got home from work today to find another note from my H that he had stopped by to walk the dog. This time however, he had obviously went through a lot of the rooms in the house trying to find things he needed or wanted. He put those things in a pile on our kitchen table and asked in the note if I would mind if he took that stuff for himself. I have no problem with any of it, other than the photo album his mom made for me when he and I got married (its of all of his childhood years). He probably doesn't even remember that it was a gift to me. He also asked if I could go to the cell phone store to divide up our bill permenantly. The phone was also a gift to me from him a couple of years ago. We have always split the bill. But it sounds to me like he wants me off of his plan for good. I am so hurt. These were things that were given to me as gifts, and now I need to give them back. I wrote him back a note for the next time he pops in, and said that I would split the phone bill up soon, and that he could have all the items on the table (including the photo album). This SUCKS!!! I think it is very rude of him, but I have no other choice than to follow through with these demands kindly. I read here sometimes how some of your H's still help with bills and $ situation, and my H could give two craps about my money situation and now is telling me I have to pay for the phone he gave me as a gift, AHHHHHHHHHH! I am so frustrated. TIPPER
