Yes, I think she is afraid. But I think the biggest thing she is afraid of is standing on her own two feet. I don't think she can pull it off.
Frank, I hear so much BS coming out of her mouth in regards to the dissolution of your marriage that it's mind-numbing. The woman is JUSTIFYING. And she's trying her damnedest to get you to buy into her BS justifications.
Ok, but WHY? Because she doesn't have the feelings for me any longer to BE in the marriage? Yeah, we can go down the 'wedding vows are being violated' path but that's a dead horse already. WHY does she have to 'work on letting me go'? I would think that's EASY given the fact that I'm such a mean Ogre, she's been such a 'mean person' (which she is sorry for).
I don't buy into her 'justifying', I told her that giving up is not my choice because I believe we have potential. That's how I feel.
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But the skinny is this: She is ignorant and she is prideful. That is a dangerous combination. Because it most assuredly means she's going to jump and land flat on her face. Under these conditions though, I believe it is necessary. It's the only way she'll learn to appreciate the life she has now. Unfortunately, it is likely she'll be appreciating it in hindsight. Frank, she might have to go for a few months. I still think at times that she should leave now...
Maybe 'ignorant' is close but 'prideful' I don't see in her. If anything she is discouraged. And being 'supported' by people who do not see the whole picture - just hers.
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So when are you going to STOP worrying about HER and get on with worrying about YOURSELF??!!
