From my own experience with W, and from things she has told me in the past, she has a REALLY hard time letting go of people. If she 'feels love' for someone, or whatever, then she's cling to that feeling like an addiction. I seriously think that this guy could drive over her head, and she'd be okay with it.
Not so much different than many LBSes. There is a wanting what we can't have, like an addition. I saw an interesting article in a magazine about the science of love, and in some people, parts of the brain that are activated in addition are active in some people that can't get over a break up.
Personally, if my wife was IM with another man while I was around, it would really boost my desire to get the heck out of dodge. Is she completely insensitive to your feelings? How can she give you kisses after that? I think she needs space. Your presence isn't drawing her any closer to you....it's starting to feel more like she's using you.
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I guess I'm starting to get tired of her BS - She seems like she's as much of a train wreck as all of her useless friends. Maybe this is the type of life she likes to live - It just seems totally ridiculous to me.
She needs to work through this phase, if she's ever going to.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
