You are very wise. Sometimes when you are in 'the thick' of something you can't see sense.
I suppose I have realised that I can't do this for ever and have put a time frame in my head.
I know I'm more attractive to him and a bit of a mystery too. He doesn't know where I go, or who I'm with. I spend a lot of time with friends, I go away for weekends, go to the gym and don't always answer his calls, he hates that.
I put the divorce on hold in the New Year, maybe I need to start the divorce up again, maybe that is my time frame!
