Hi! New here, but my H told me Dec 7th he wants out of our marriage. I was devastated. Got angry at first and then began trying to piece us back together. He moved out of our house Dec 14th and is still gone and convinced our marriage is over and not worth trying to save. He's told me he doubts his love for me and whether or not he ever really loved me. We've been together 7 yrs, married almost 3 of those yrs. I've read the Divorce Remedy and it's like Michelle was in the room when my H told me his reasons for leaving. It sounds just like a MLC, but nothing I say to him seems to bring him back. He just keeps telling me that he's unhappy and trying to follow his heart, that this is what's best for him. When I explain to him that I just want him to try, he tells me that he could come home but he knows he would not put forth the effort it would take and we would end up back in this place months or a yr from now. Last Thursday was the last time I saw him and spoke to him. I've decided after speaking with a coach, that I have to start doing thing differently than I have been b/c the old way is obviously not working in my favor. So, I am trying to not contact him in any way for 2 wks. It's so hard. I want to save my marriage so badly. I love my H with all of my heart and I want to help him thru this. I know that I can't, and that I must let him come to the realization on his own. It's just really hard
