Hi Jack, at the moment working in Switzerland, very beautiful, and the people are so courteous. Just some hurtful reminders keep popping up. However much our spouses want out, they cannot truly get rid of us. So sad, as you know wife is making arrangements for my son's 18th, and excluding me, should be intersting when he gets married and/ we have grand children.

You asked what I would have differently if I was Lor. I dont think I would, I would remain pleasant and leave her well alone, perhaps even help her find the door.

It was the 2.5 years we spent in the house together, it was a living hell!