Lor,

Good advice from Smurf.

AND He has been where you are, so he has the hindsight of experience to work from.

So Smurf/Simon, what would you have done differently in regards to Lor here?

BTW where are you currently in the world?

If you want as little to do as possible ATM, then maybe suggest that the Sunday dinner be once a month, or so.

Have you read the resources thread at the top yet?

DON'T BELIEVE that STUPID TIMELINE.
Do not try to figure out where she is in the stages.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet