the way i think this will work is that we continue to pay the bills together and i will also stay here when my schedule permits and my W can not be here for D7. pretty screwed up i know but we have to do the best we can for D7. Only other alternative is MIL and you all know what i think of her.
maybe W will realize what she is doing when I leave. i will try to postpone the announcement to D7.
