I just wanted you to know that we are at the same state of mind. In my thread you told me you wished you were as detached as I seem to be. Well I am not. I am getting there but you know why I think it has been easier for me? Because our work schedules were completely different all these years, I was actually a single parent all this time. He was -is a great father during the time he was-is with the kids, but that has not been much. He is a journalist and works from 10 to midnight everyday, Sundays 16:00 to midnight. I was used to being alone most of the time. And I am still trying to get over the empty bed at nights. So do not worry, it will come to you. Think of it as an investment, no matter how it goes you'll end up with a a fair deal for yourself and girls.
Take care, Kalni
PS Are you aware of the Law of Attraction? It works for me for the little things, It helped me a lot to find peace. Maybe you should give it a try...