wow lwb, just wow.. I agree with michael.. I think things can be turned around.. it seems like he is feeling some guilt which is a good sign.. I think the night out is a great idea and you can feel him out then...

When are you going??

tal

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.