Hey Tomato - Sounds like you had a good weekend. Hope D is doing well. It's awesome that you are able to be there for her and support her and show her what love is.
Hows everything else going?
During the extended weekend there was at least 1 avoidable non-DB phone conversation which my D overheard my raising my voice @ W. And of course she asked why I was yelling @ "mom". I simply said that I didn't realize that I had started yelling and didn't mean to. I told D I was sorry for upsetting her. But the damage was done by my screw up. So, because of D's background (severe PTSD among other things)the rest of the weekend she gradually went into her shell and started triangulating between me & W. Kinda the good cop bad cop scenario.
But I live and learn (I hope) and the weekend certainly had its up moments. It was not a complete bust by any means.
Now to prepare for a return call to W to further iron out specifics/logistics as the divorce freight train continues down the rails.
Thanks 4 the companionship Ann.
P.s Guess I gotta practice some more on how 2 do the quote thingamajig since it almost but didn't quite work (kinda like my marriage)
