Well you might as well throw pissed off into your list of feelings I reckon because I'm just gonna tell you, the only thing I could think of as I read about your conversation with your wife is "Holy crap. If Frank could fill her head up with dimes, he'd be rich".
And that she had the AU-friggin-DACITY to say "I feel like I'm letting you go, and I don't have to worry any more that I have to take care of you, or fix you" just about sent me right around the bend.
I have never, EVER seen, heard of or read of another adult living in such a delusional state of mind. That she feels no sense of responsibility for the finances or anything else in your family makes me want to SCREAM. She is worse than I ever was. She needs to make "peace" during this "transition" so you'll foot the majority of the damn bill! I am sorry but her nicey-nice fluff-n-stuff demeanor is really starting to smell manipulative to me. Only thing is I'm not sure she's smart enough to BE manipulative.
Keep working on yourself, Frank.
Your wife needs a reality check but I think it's going to have to be from someone a bit higher up than you.
I also can't understand why you'd stand there and ask her how she feels about you. What is it you want to hear?
I wish, I REALLY WISH, you would not engage in these conversations with you. They just mess you up, whether you see it or not. I'm telling you, you still need to go away alone for a few days like I told you in the beginning.
