Don't know. I think I am coming to it. Despite what Dom thinks, despite how anyone else views me dropping my efforts for a whole year (thinking it is a hissy or passive-aggressive) I think it has been necessary to give me clarity about some things, to regain my own self respect and to have something irrefutable to point out to H. Stressed, tired, frustrated works for an excuse for a week or two or even a month but a year???
