Go dancing - Start now GAL Dating - Maybe, at least boost you self esteem. Sell the house and downsize - Not sure (of you financial position) Accelerate the Divorce, - Possibly then let W slow it down Stop DBing, - No, it's made you a better person.
I'm a reserved type, so dancing is a bit awkward; but I've done it occasionally to please W. I'm mulling over how to initiate dating - there's a lot of crazy, pathetic and needy women out there so I don't want to get in more trouble by jeopardizing the respect of my kids and the community at large. The house is now 100% in my name because I had to mortgage it to pay off W's share of the equity but the pay-off money is still in legal trust because W wanted more money for it so I've been tempted to call her bluff and sell the darn thing - this way she'll have to split the capital gains, realtor fees, etc. Last October W accused me of "stalling" so I contacted my lawyer and pushed the pedal to the floor. But it seems like W is actually the one stalling cos she's sticking with some ridiculous claims that are not going anywhere with the lawyers. The main argument of the "move-on" advocates is W cannot be trusted anymore and even if she came back she's cause irreparable damage and will most likely make my life even more miserable than before and may do/threaten the D thing again when she doesn't get her way.
Me-48, W-38 M14, D11, S7 W filed D 01/07 W had to move out 06/07 Current Thread
