Well, this year was odd. There was the pregnancy, we went on a trip around Valentines day and had sex and then H went on his guy vacation in the summer, when our Fall family vacation came up he made it clear that he wanted some but then everyone got pink eye, upper respiratory infections etc... and the babies were in our bed. None then. Now, our annual Spring Break trip is coming up and I will be surprised if he isn't expecting some then. Also, we are going away for a weekend around Valentine's Day (that will be the one year mark). I'm sure he's thinking about getting some then but with a nursing baby he won't even try to compete with baby - he's probably thinking "if it happens, it happens" where I wish he was thinking - "Wow, she looks good and we're gonna get some regardless..........." I wish he were even doing some preliminary can't wait stuff but he isn't. At this point it will be like having sex with a virtual stranger. Maybe I will make him pay me for it.
