I am hopeful and will ride this out

[Heimlich]

Does your W's attorney advertise on TV? Sounds like you've got an ambulance chaser to deal with.

Can't remember your financial situation, but i thought your W had her own career and that alimony/spousal support wouldn't be an issue. Also, since you want primary custody, she could owe you child support, I would think.

Of course, I have no clue what I'm talking about.

Someone mentioned this earlier, but are you sure you want this divorce? You keep telling your W that she can stop it at any time. I understand your reasons, but is this getting you where you want to be?

Also, you do sound like you've got your shyte together. Kudos.

BD