Originally Posted By: Lanzo

We don't discuss anything at the moment we're just going with the flow, but that worries me that we have so many things left unsaid. Do I say something now and potentially rock the boat or just carry on as we are. Well I'm still thinking on that.


Hi Lanzo,
Before my wife returned to the states I asked her what can I do to try to work things out and her answer was "Just go with the flow". When I spoke with my coach right after D day, one of things she told me is to go with the flow.

It looks to me that this is a good advice and have to follow it for a long long time and try not to rock the boat


Me 42
W 27
Married: 6 years
Together: 7 years
Daughter: 3 years
Wife away 2/16/2007 - 12/27/2007 (School in a different country)
EA/PA began on Jan 07 (found out 12/29/07)
Papers served on 2/6/2008