There is no improvement of their sex life on vacation.
There is no difference in their sex life whether he's really busy or really slow.
He *will* make time/find energy for "family", church activities, etc etc ad nauseum .... but *not* for his intimate/sexual relationship with his wife. Activities miraculously multiply to fill in whatever free time from work he may have.
How does ANY of what you've recommended address the above? Are you projecting???
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