I have come to realize the last few days that I have not detached enough. I need to put some serious thought into goals and set some.
It sounds like, much like me, waiting around for our spouses to get out of their funk is going to be a long process. It's interesting that he text messages you off and on - I'm sure he gets lonely and wants attention now and again.
Making some goals sounds like a good idea, but you always seem to have the lions share of the responsibilities for your Ds - Obviously if your H isn't capable it's out of the question, but maybe you can push him to step up a little more often?
